Why this RUND MUSAND culture of living separate/divorced or teens away from parents?

this culture suggests that people have the right to do as they please, instead of having their every moment dictated by dirty old men who call themselves religious leaders and a book that has more violence than many wars. at least, we don't stone women because the husband wants to to divorce her and abandon his family for a new, younger model. and we don't kill our daughters for some perceived slight. Until islam gets its act together, and starts letting people live how they want, don't tell the rest of the world how to live