Is this what most people do?

Wooow your so selfish! Its your body and your life, but when someone else is involved in that process u can't just go around having abortions and not telling the other person involved! If u wanna get off the pills, then go for it, but talk to your doctor - there are tones of other options for contraception. In answer to your question - no everyone else does not do this - grow the **** up!!!