What are the choices during a divorce?

I am 21 years old. My husband and i want a divorce. He will only give me a divorce if i move into my parents home. already have done that once. my parents told me this is the one and only time i get to move in and help myself. i moved back out a few months later and we still want a divorce. again he wants me to move into my parents home. my parents made it clear that they wont help me again. where can i go during/after the divorce. we have no kids. just 3 pets. i have no job. and no money whatsoever. i also have a lot of stuff. will a homeless shelter help me, my stuff and pets? where can i do without any money?